Sex- The word can evoke a kaleidoscope of emotions. Love,
feelings and tenderness of longing, worry and disappointment, the reactions are
as varied as the sexual experience itself. In addition, many people will find
all of these emotions and many others in connection with a sexual life that
covers several decades.
But what is sex, really?
On the one hand, sex is just another bodily function leading
hormonal aims to perpetuate the species. Of course, this narrow approach
underestimates the complexity of human sexual response. In addition to
biochemical forces at work, their experiences and expectations help shape your
sexuality. Your understanding of herself as a sexual being, his thoughts on
what constitutes a successful sexual relationship, and your relationship with
your partner is the key factor in its ability to develop and maintain a satisfying
sex life.
Talking to your partner
Many couples find it difficult to talk about sex, even under
the best conditions. When sexual problems occur feelings of sadness, shame,
guilt and resentment can completely stop the conversation. Because good communication
is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship, a dialogue the first step not
only to a better sex life, but also a closer emotional connection. Here are
some tips for dealing with this sensitive issue.
Finding the right time to talk
There are two types of sexual conversations: the ones you
have in the room and you have elsewhere. It is perfectly suited to tell your
partner what feels good in the middle of having sex, but it is best to wait
until you are in a more neutral environment to discuss broader issues such as
sexual desire does not match or orgasm problems.
Avoid criticizing
Couch proposals in positive terms, such as "I love when
lightly touched her hair that way," instead of focusing on the negative.
Come to a sexual theme as a problem to solve together rather than an exercise
in assigning blame.
Trust your partner about the changes in the body
If hot flashes or night watchman menopause made her dry
vagina, talk to your partner about these things. It is much better than he
knows what is really happening instead of interpreting these physical changes
such as lack of interest. Likewise, if you are a human and not get an erection
just thinking about sex, show your partner how to stimulate rather than let to
believe that they are not attractive enough to generate more.
Be honest
You may think that you are protecting your partner's
feelings by simulating an orgasm, but in fact you start down a slippery slope.
Since it is hard to discuss any sexual problem is the difficulty level is
triggered as soon as the problem is buried under years of lies, pain and
resentment.
Try different positions
The development of a catalog of various sexual positions not
only adds interest to love, but can also help to overcome the problems. For
example, increased G-spot stimulation that occurs when a man penetrates his
partner from behind can help women to achieve orgasm.